Can Florida get any hotter!!

Just got in touch with this heart stoppingly sexy man from Florida.  Now THIS is what I'm talking about. See L is a guy I can get excited about seeing.  And he's Latin so the romance is off the meter!!  Oooo I can't wait to see where this goes.  ttyl

Bella,

WTF!!!!!!! Where is Antonio Banderas when I need him?!?!?

This is beginning to disturb AND frustrate me to no end.  Ok I know I've only be on the SD search for a short (very short) time but what the hell do I have to do to get a HOT guy to email me.  So far all I've gotten are the creepy, over sexual, wrinkled OLD men, or guys that are not even a three on my scale of attractiveness.

That was harsh.  I'm vain. I refuse to apologize for that though.  Look I'm not the type of woman that just takes and takes from someone without at least trying to give something back.  That being said, I cannot honestly say I'd be happy in a SD/SB relationship with a man that makes my stomach nauseous when he tries to kiss me.  I can't do it.  There has to be some sort of physical attraction between the two of us or it won't work. Not for me anyway.  He doesn't have to look exactly like Antonio Sabato Jr. ( in the pic below).  Just has to make me feel the same way I feel every time I see this uber-sexy Italian.

I have taken the initiative and contacted a couple guys whose profile and pics caught my attention.  One emailed me back, and then asked to IM me.  I don't know if he was busy or what but we didn't even get into a conversation before he gave me what felt like the brush.  It was kind of confusing because HE gave me his number first (without my having to ask for it) so I gave him mine.  Maybe that was my mistake.  I don't know.  Should I call him tomorrow or just leave it alone?  From what he had written on his profile the two of us have a lot in common, he's gorgeous, financially stable, seems like a gentleman.  My curiosity is SERIOUSLY getting to me.

Having a few opinions from someone more experienced than me would really be appreciated right now.  Please, if anyone has an idea of what I could do to make this a little easier drop me a line.

Bella,

Sugardaddie.com!!!

Just made a profile there and there seem to be some very sexy prospects lol.  I like the fact I can get more specific with my search and there are more than 2 people that show up.  I've got a few guys in my Hotlist that I plan to email as soon as I become a Premium member (told you I was serious about this).  Some of them photos got my heart racing too.  So great because I already know the attraction is there on my part.  It's a start.

I'll write later when/if something comes out of it.

Bella,

So....the Phuck up

I have a friend that's away in the Navy right now and in all honesty, the man is HOT AS HELL.  We've known each other for a while now though we haven't talked since he left.  He's coming home soon and has told me he's interested in getting to know me better.  I don't exactly know what this means.  He's said before that he doesn't want to get into a relationship because he plans to reenlist after his contract is up which means he'll be away for another four years. I think he is an interesting person and know that he'd be good to me.  Problem with this is I've committed myself to this SD thing and don't really want to stop now.  But I'm sure if he found out he wouldn't talk to me anymore.

Once again it's a head/heart thing.  I need financial help, I want companionship/love.  I've never been the kind of woman that judges a man by how much money he has, but lately I'm seeing that the only way I'm going to have the kind of life I want is to find a man that can afford it.  I've never been great at finances so therefore I would have to find a guy that is.  I'm a spender lol.

Anyway, how do I handle this?  I like Navy a lot.  But he'll be gone for so long, I need help like yesterday, and both my bank account and my heart are empty :0(

AND I'M SITTING HERE LISTENING TO ENRIQUE IGLESIAS' SONG "HERO"
How pathetic is that?!?!?!  I LOVE that song btw (Enrique is THE sexiest man alive).


Bella,

Ok so Im learning

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My Millionaire Mate

So one of the sucky things I found out AFTER I registered on Millionairemates.com is that you cannot contact ANYONE in ANY WAY unless you are a premium member. Well that's $35.99 out of my pocket. And since I paid via electronic check it will take about two fricking weeks before my membership goes through.  I hope my one month starts the day the check clears and they notify me that I am officially a member. If not I WILL be requesting a full refund.

Anywho, I updated my profile as I felt the need to include a few specifics in the interest of weeding out the perverts, crazies, and just plain scaries. I hope it wasn't so specific that it turns potential SDs off but I need to be honest up front in order to save myself a massive amount of frustration. I also saw that one SB had the idea to create a wishlist for her SDs. I figured that was a great idea so I followed her lead except mine is for potentials. I've requested that any man interested in meeting for a first date refer to my wishlist and choose one (or more if they like) to bring with him. My thoughts are that only a guy that is seriously interested in getting to know me and looking to actually be a SD to me won't mind doing this. Beside everything on my list (with the exception of the iPhone I want sooooooooooo badly) is under $100 USD and they are suppose to be men of means so that's like cracker jack prizes to them right?

It will be interesting to see how this will play out. I've got a few things I want that require a hefty budget and getting to know a successful man while spending said budget seems too exciting.


Bella,

So I been thinking...

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