WTF!!!!!!! Where is Antonio Banderas when I need him?!?!?

This is beginning to disturb AND frustrate me to no end.  Ok I know I've only be on the SD search for a short (very short) time but what the hell do I have to do to get a HOT guy to email me.  So far all I've gotten are the creepy, over sexual, wrinkled OLD men, or guys that are not even a three on my scale of attractiveness.

That was harsh.  I'm vain. I refuse to apologize for that though.  Look I'm not the type of woman that just takes and takes from someone without at least trying to give something back.  That being said, I cannot honestly say I'd be happy in a SD/SB relationship with a man that makes my stomach nauseous when he tries to kiss me.  I can't do it.  There has to be some sort of physical attraction between the two of us or it won't work. Not for me anyway.  He doesn't have to look exactly like Antonio Sabato Jr. ( in the pic below).  Just has to make me feel the same way I feel every time I see this uber-sexy Italian.

I have taken the initiative and contacted a couple guys whose profile and pics caught my attention.  One emailed me back, and then asked to IM me.  I don't know if he was busy or what but we didn't even get into a conversation before he gave me what felt like the brush.  It was kind of confusing because HE gave me his number first (without my having to ask for it) so I gave him mine.  Maybe that was my mistake.  I don't know.  Should I call him tomorrow or just leave it alone?  From what he had written on his profile the two of us have a lot in common, he's gorgeous, financially stable, seems like a gentleman.  My curiosity is SERIOUSLY getting to me.

Having a few opinions from someone more experienced than me would really be appreciated right now.  Please, if anyone has an idea of what I could do to make this a little easier drop me a line.

Bella,